She feels he keeps score of what he does for her and then feels slighted if she does not reciprocate in the same manner.
At times, this kind and gentle man blows his top venting long lists of things Dorothy has done to make him feel as if she's taking advantage of him.
Even in a business context, one of the most frequently asked questions I get is, “What would be a compatible Enneagram Type for my Type? Yes, the Enneagram can help, and “no” in my experience there is no match for each Type.
” Love relationships confound the best of us and no one seems to have the to produce that ideal relationship. If you go by Harville Hendrix’s theory, we unconsciously choose mates to help us heal childhood wounds with one or both of our parents (or caregivers). This holds true for business partnerships, people we hire to work for us and friends as well.
According to Enneagram personality experts, it's not sex-linked differences that cause relationship issues, but rather a lack of understanding about one's partner's personality type.Let’s look at an example of a Type pairing that does not fall under any of the aforementioned qualifiers, yet I have encountered several of these pairs in love and business relationships (excerpt from the section Dynamics and Distinctions in my book ): Type 6 The Loyal Skeptic and and Type 8 The Boss Type 6s like to be protected and feel safe, and Type 8s like to protect.Type 6 can be very loyal, and Type 8 demands loyalty. Type 8s have a more focused and intentional way of being active, while Type 6s keep busy trying to allay their own anxiety.Abundance and the Enneagram is a three-day course in which you will work with the ancient wisdom of the Enneagram to undo inner blocks to abundance and open up to inspiration, grace and prosperity.Join Robert Holden in magical Findhorn for a spiritual journey with The Enneagram – one of the oldest selfawareness tools on […] Register Now Abundance and the Enneagram is a three-day course in which you will work with the ancient wisdom of the Enneagram to undo inner blocks to abundance and open up to inspiration, grace and prosperity.